tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-452568171229084319.post5875125784880484907..comments2023-04-09T06:31:08.396-04:00Comments on Milking Miami: I want to be a snowboarderLittle Miss Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00331610017041834439noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-452568171229084319.post-67491176065992040152010-02-18T21:41:26.056-05:002010-02-18T21:41:26.056-05:00I wouldn't even know where to start on the awe...I wouldn't even know where to start on the awesomeness of this blog. You are very deep. <br /><br />I'm a commitment phobe too. I feel so much kinship with you on so many levels. <br /><br />I would love to see you snowboard. Hahahaaha Geographically challenged is right! I wish I could take you to Tahoe and have T-bone teach you how to snowboard.Valkyriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01575883172357805945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-452568171229084319.post-27192218554859089612010-02-17T14:56:19.733-05:002010-02-17T14:56:19.733-05:00yes, yes, yes. I am really proud of my latest rei...yes, yes, yes. I am really proud of my latest reinvention. Not at all something I wish I wasn't doing. But independently of my new role as an integral part of a family, personal reinvention is what I've slacked on. The realization of that is only heightened by my commitment fears, because to people like me commitment equals co-dependency and lack of individuality. Not because I'm right, just because I'm dysfunctional. hahahaha! <br /><br />Anyway, this wasn't supposed to be deep and meaningful. I really just want to snowboard. I don't know where the other stuff came from. Probably my need to act like I'm deep and meaningful. muahaha!Little Miss Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00331610017041834439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-452568171229084319.post-83318110695910750162010-02-17T06:56:48.202-05:002010-02-17T06:56:48.202-05:00I think there's something exciting about commi...I think there's something exciting about commitment, when it's to the right person/cause/whatever. How freeing to know that you can be exactly who you are, and there will always be that one person there, cheering you on and wanting you to succeed! :) But I totally agree that it is HARD to go from being your own boss to then having to fulfill the needs of other people, especially when two of those people are little people who have nothing to go on but their instinct and need. Husbands at least can be patient or leave you alone when you're having a bad day. Kids don't. <br /><br />I don't think it's boring to reinvent yourself, even in the way that you have done. I think that's part of growing up. It would be more boring if you were trying to be the same person you were 5 years ago, even though you're in a new situation. You are the last person I would ever think of as boring. A 16-year-old might think it's boring to have a family and a career, but 16-year-olds are just babies. They don't know what life is really about.<br /><br />I'm totally rambling, sorry. It's early and I didn't get nearly enough sleep last night, so if this makes no sense, you'll have to forgive me. :)AmyBeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04457545689345657277noreply@blogger.com